I've given up on running TTRPG campaigns for the foreseeable future, because I've got sick and tired of never knowing from week to week whether the game is actually going to happen.
I get that people have lives outside of a silly game, but I do think that if you have a choice, and yet you prioritize other things over this social commitment you've made, then it's pretty clear that it's not all that important to you. And if it's not that important to you, then why should I bust a gut to come up with entertainment for you?
I'll still happily play, but with somebody else doing all the hard work.
But not online; I just really don't think much of online play. It's missing something important in the experience, and the hardware and interface is too intrusive.